Romance is about the little things but honestly, it is actually pretty involving because it requires emotional awareness, good listening skills, sustained attention and planning capabilities. All in all, being romantic isn’t just about displaying a quick mental capability but is also about making and committing to a long lasting investment.
There are numerous reasons why some husbands cringe and panic when the subject of romance is broached. Some of which is due to the pressure of meeting expectations and not disappointing their spouses.
However, let me clarify who I had in mind when I wrote this article –
This is for those who constantly hear how unromantic they are or have become
This is for those who are tired of going with the usual gifts such as flowers, card, and perfumes
This is for those who want to cultivate a steady and continuous romantic lifestyle
Honestly, it is for everyone believe it or not
So dear husbands, you can become a master in romance and here’s why you should.
First, you should know that “little things mean the world to women”. These little things have a supernatural effect on women that leads to many, amazing benefits in the home.
Secondly, you should know that catching your wife off guard every now and then adds sizzle, spark, and drama to marriage. Catching a woman off guard disarms her totally.
Thirdly, you should know that women desperately crave and yearn for romance in relationships. It is like oxygen to a woman’s soul and a lubricant to the joints of any relationship.
5 Little Things To Take Your Relationship To A Different Level
Leave a provocative voice mail message
This is a classic. Call your spouse when you know he or she is unavailable such that you have access to the voicemail to drop your ‘dangerous message’. In no small terms explain how naughty she has been and how you intend to curb her naughtiness. In ‘stern’ terms and using a deep voice for effect let her know she is in for a ‘treat’. The use of ‘I will do…” this and that — is highly recommended.
You must back up your words with some serious actions because it is true that ‘actions’ speak louder than ‘words’.